You mean the thread was about finding a man to marry. Now as far as I can tell it's about whether or not it's a sin to pass gas!
Hmmm, this has me wondering about what to do with potential grooms who fart. Anyone? Beuller?
I have been a traditional Catholic all of my life and have attended SSPX, Independent and Indult Masses, and I must say I have never met a young traditional Catholic woman who fits this bizarre description, though I suppose they may be out there wearing their 'Kick Me' signs so people know and don't have to assume that they have sick sexual kinks that need satisfaction from abusive men.
I haven't met any in real life, but then I don't get out much. I've encountered plenty
of them online, though, and in pondering the psychology of such women, the only thing I can come up with is that lack of self-respect and/or a kink. They are
out there, and it's sad, sad, sad.
If CaroleK's daughters are among them I suppose she can consider herself warned, but I highly doubt it. If a young St. Rita or St. Monica were living in our times it would be easy for a jaded observer to chalk up their 'weak, self-esteemless, Kick-Me' conduct in their marriages to sexual kinks, but the Church views it differently.
I am not talking about SS. Rita and Monica, but about women I've run into (virtually) who are not just coping, in faith, with a rotten husband, but think that women are illogical, unreasoned, irrational, children-with-wombs whose sole
purpose in life is to breed, suffer and wear frumpy clothes. And then kvetch in forums about how horrible and busy their lives are -- but how they love it! -- and how women who don't want to live as they do -- who want their daughters to be educated, who don't swoon at the sight of sisters in pants, who know that ideas are for girls, who don't pretend
to have seemingly grown up in the 19th c., etc. -- are "modernist feminist heretics."
My husband just told me in a loud and angry German tone that I'm done for on this site. Apparently I'm not supposed to disagree with the gal who has the buttons to kick me off of it. He finally convinced me to join a few days ago and I think I'll get more than my usual nightly beating if I screw this up. No, CASSIUS!!! PLEASE!!! STOP!!! NO, GO AHEAD! NO STOP!!! I MEAN, NO GO AHEAD!!!
Nooooo, Cassius! If you beat her, who will make you dessert?!! LOL