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QuisUtDeus
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« Reply #30 on: July 12, 2008, 01:58:AM »

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If you can't work with such people, you'd have lousy pastoral attributes as a priest.  What kind of people do you think priests work with?  Rocket scientists and philosophers all day?  They work with those that need the help the most.


Dealing with people pastorally is different than having to live with a whole group of them 24 hours a day. Which I have done for up to several weeks with some of these groups. 

Many priests work with prisoners, one on one or in small groups...that doesnt mean they'd feel comfortable living in prison. It's not that some individuals, as individuals, were that way that bothered me. It was the sheer disproportionate number of them...which suggests to me that there might be some root cause to that, that there might be something in that environment that specifically attracts such people (the routine, the repetition, the systematic, the lack of need to interact [silent meals, all that chapel time, etc])

Exactly.  It's called being the right type of person to be a priest.  Not everyone could or should be a priest.  It requires certain personality traits like any other kind of job.

When I was in high school I took one of those vocational tests.  It said I should be a priest or in the military; as you and I have suggested, it seems the same personality attributes are good for both.    I think that's for a good reason.
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Catholic777
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« Reply #31 on: July 12, 2008, 02:03:AM »

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It seems like all your complaints are related to making being a priest easier for your personality type.   Maybe you just can't hack it as a priest and everyone else is fine.

Except not being able to deal with the accidental interpersonal atmosphere of seminary...is not necessarily here or there when it comes to being able to be a priest. The life these seminarians will live as priests will be very different than the life they lead in seminary. Being able to "hack it" as a seminarian is different than being able to as a priest actually out in the parishes.

I very much worry that while these men some people (including their superiors) romanticize as the "ideal seminarians"...will not be the ideal pastors. In a monastery...perhaps they'd be fine. But the seminary should not be a monastery, because the life they are preparing for certainly wont be. They're going to need to be independent, deal with people, make their own structure, and handle events spontaneously.

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Exactly.  It's called being the right type of person to be a priest.  Not everyone could or should be a priest.  It requires certain personality traits like any other kind of job.


But psychological dependence and repression...should not be considered essential to the priesthood.

I know many good, holy priests (admittedly they are neocon novus ordo diocesan priests) who arent like this.

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When I was in high school I took one of those vocational tests.  It said I should be a priest or in the military; as you and I have suggested, it seems the same personality attributes are good for both.    I think that's for a good reason.


Clerics were forbidden from military action, and in the early centuries all Christians were. It's not just because of combat. It's because of what that sort of environment does to a person. There is a mindset it builds that isnt healthy.

There is also a strong argument that from a purely natural perspective...both occupations are socially parasitic. Of course, from a supernatural perspective that cant be said for the clergy. But it can still be said for the army, and even for the clergy if people (including the clerics themselves) start to take a merely natural view towards their vocation, if they trivialize it with pragmatic functionality.

Of course...we need somewhere to put a certain type of person. Certain people need to be institutionalized. And, though I find this attitude wrong...sociologists would explain that a celibate clergy and the army...are both designed to remove such people from the gene pool, ultimately.

But I dont think that's the ideal we should be putting up for our priests and religious. It shouldnt just be a place for putting men who shouldnt breed. That sort of sociological pragmatism, while perhaps it made some sense in a purely Christian society...is irrelevant now.
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QuisUtDeus
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« Reply #32 on: July 12, 2008, 03:22:AM »

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It seems like all your complaints are related to making being a priest easier for your personality type.   Maybe you just can't hack it as a priest and everyone else is fine.

Except not being able to deal with the accidental interpersonal atmosphere of seminary...is not necessarily here or there when it comes to being able to be a priest. The life these seminarians will live as priests will be very different than the life they lead in seminary. Being able to "hack it" as a seminarian is different than being able to as a priest actually out in the parishes.

I very much worry that while these men some people (including their superiors) romanticize as the "ideal seminarians"...will not be the ideal pastors. In a monastery...perhaps they'd be fine. But the seminary should not be a monastery, because the life they are preparing for certainly wont be. They're going to need to be independent, deal with people, make their own structure, and handle events spontaneously.



Well, somehow the various religious orders have stood the test of time doing things this way.  From the decadent eras, to the plagues, etc. they've managed to turn out good priests.

Only when the Seminaries became infected with Modernism, perverts, and touchy-feely crap did the priesthood start falling apart.  It has nothing to do with how priestly formation was traditionally conducted.

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Exactly.  It's called being the right type of person to be a priest.  Not everyone could or should be a priest.  It requires certain personality traits like any other kind of job.


But psychological dependence and repression...should not be considered essential to the priesthood.


Being a Catholic has much to do with psychological dependence and repression, and moreso for the priesthood.  Even the laity should have a "psychological dependence" on the teachings of the Church and repress the lower urges.

Don't you think it should be moreso for a priest who is called to a higher degree of sanctity?

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I know many good, holy priests (admittedly they are neocon novus ordo diocesan priests) who arent like this.


And I know many good holy traditional priests who aren't like this.

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When I was in high school I took one of those vocational tests.  It said I should be a priest or in the military; as you and I have suggested, it seems the same personality attributes are good for both.    I think that's for a good reason.


Clerics were forbidden from military action, and in the early centuries all Christians were. It's not just because of combat. It's because of what that sort of environment does to a person. There is a mindset it builds that isnt healthy.


Maybe you're forgetting that St. Ignaitus of Loyola started out as a soldier and based the Jesuit rule on a military system?

Not all Christians were forbidden from military service.  That's ridiculous.  St. George immediately comes to mind as well as St. Sebastian.  They were both Roman soldiers after they became Catholic.

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There is also a strong argument that from a purely natural perspective...both occupations are socially parasitic. Of course, from a supernatural perspective that cant be said for the clergy. But it can still be said for the army, and even for the clergy if people (including the clerics themselves) start to take a merely natural view towards their vocation, if they trivialize it with pragmatic functionality.


OK, so the military and the clergy are parasites.  Got it.

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Of course...we need somewhere to put a certain type of person. Certain people need to be institutionalized. And, though I find this attitude wrong...sociologists would explain that a celibate clergy and the army...are both designed to remove such people from the gene pool, ultimately.


If you find it wrong, why are you quoting it?

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But I dont think that's the ideal we should be putting up for our priests and religious. It shouldnt just be a place for putting men who shouldnt breed. That sort of sociological pragmatism, while perhaps it made some sense in a purely Christian society...is irrelevant now.


You're assuming the nonsense the sociologists are spewing as a fact - that people became priests, or were led into it, because they shouldn't breed.  However, it was quite the opposite.  Most families, even if they had only one son, wanted their sons to become priests.

And the pragmatic attitude back then was because it removed some people from a life of misery - they had a living, they were educated by the Church, etc.  And the Church always cautioned that pragmatic reasons were not a vocation.

I don't know where you come up with this stuff.  I don't doubt you believe it to be true - in other words I don't think you're lying, but I think you should check into this Modernist garbage before you quote it as a basis for changing the way the Church has formed priests for hundreds of years.

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CradleCatholic
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« Reply #33 on: July 12, 2008, 03:31:AM »

I could tell from C777's first posts he was not really a trad. I think he is an infiltrator. Or completly uninformed about the true church as established almost 2000 years ago. Just read the posts he makes.

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Cephas
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« Reply #34 on: July 12, 2008, 09:27:AM »

Hmm, while I disagree with C777's 'solutions', I think his concerns are somewhat legitimate(key word 'somewhat')...
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Tiny
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« Reply #35 on: July 12, 2008, 09:29:AM »

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Hmm, while I disagree with C777's 'solutions', I think his concerns are somewhat legitimate(key word 'somewhat')...


Sounds like he has a problem with discipline.
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Cephas
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« Reply #36 on: July 12, 2008, 09:34:AM »

The only concern he seemed to be making any sense with is with some of his observations of seminarian behavior. Frankly, I think these people would have a mentality similar to some of the [former] sedes here. Polemical, but without any substance. They'll rant the hell out of themselves, but they're still foolish nitwits, gunning the living hell out people who really don't deserve it.
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VetusOrdo
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« Reply #37 on: July 12, 2008, 10:58:AM »

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I could tell from C777's first posts he was not really a trad. I think he is an infiltrator. Or completly uninformed about the true church as established almost 2000 years ago. Just read the posts he makes.

Of course he is a modernist. We can smell that from distance! He can barely mask his profound hatred towards the Church and her Holy Tradition in every post he makes.

Mind you that even blames Vatican II and the New Mass on the "tridentine attitudes" and the "triumphalism" of the Church back in the days that somehow "led" to such disaster, not to mention he despises the colonization and evangelizing efforts made in the Americas and Africa by the Catholic Empires in the 16 and 17th Centuries, albeit both being permitted and blessed by the Church.

Now we see he despises the priesthood as well! FE has become a haven for some funny lot these days.
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Tinuviel
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« Reply #38 on: July 12, 2008, 11:06:AM »

I think it might be a mistake to equate "traditional seminaries today" with "the way the church has trained priests for hundreds of years." There is definitely some overlap, but criticizing an unhealthy social environment in seminaries today is NOT the same as criticizing the whole structure of the priestly formation of the past.

Maybe C777 does have concerns with both traditionalist seminaries today and traditional ways of formation (correct me if I'm wrong). But the point still stands that a person can take a critical, evaluative eye to traditionalist seminaries without being at all unfaithful to or disrespectful of the Traditions of the Church.

Still thinking about what else has been said... One thing is that it seems to me that there is a difference between chastity and asexuality, though it's difficult for me to explain the difference exactly... Does anyone have any ideas on this?

Another thing that comes to mind is that while it is good for Christians to have a psychological dependence on God, they shouldn't be so psychologically dependent on an institution like a seminary or monastery that they simply could not survive independent secular life if, for some legitimate reason, they had to.

The more we become united with Christ, the more we become united with all Christians. But in becoming united with Christ we become more ourselves--not less. So it seems that Christian unity would be the furthest thing from enforced homogeneity, and would instead be more like a body with different parts, or a symphony, or something of that nature. Totally harmonious, working much better together than separately, but still built from uniquely created individual pieces.


(I think both C777 and Quis are onto some good points, but it looks like they occasionally talk past one another)

My $0.02
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Tinuviel
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« Reply #39 on: July 12, 2008, 11:13:AM »

Excuse me, what exactly is the point of publicly accusing C777 of being an infiltrator or of hating the Church? If you don't like what he's saying, then deal with the arguments. I don't think that having an honest disagreement with trads or some of the social aspects of Church history should be equated with hating the Church.

I'm sure you're only writing these things because you care about the Church and you care about the truth (which is good!). But accusing people of hating the Church is unkind and it doesn't help with discussion.
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