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« Reply #10 on: January 23, 2011, 08:11:PM »

Thank you everyone for your support.... Smile

Ok, now I feel super bad about all this. I was so angry when I was venting, now I feel like I'm causing scandal, he is still a priest. Sorry for losing it everyone! I just get really worked up sometimes..
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« Reply #11 on: January 23, 2011, 08:18:PM »

Ouch!!
Cc it's better to first go the priest. Speak with him your husband mayb even better. Rather  then  to his superiors first.
He could very well feel sore about it and apologize. Best to speak with him first
Not when youebso pissed  though lol
 
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« Reply #12 on: January 23, 2011, 08:21:PM »

Thank you everyone for your support.... Smile

Ok, now I feel super bad about all this. I was so angry when I was venting, now I feel like I'm causing scandal, he is still a priest. Sorry for losing it everyone! I just get really worked up sometimes..

Being a priest doesn't mean you can be a complete ass to the souls under your care.  For an adult, and a PRIEST, no less, to call children names (and hit them) is a childish, stupid thing that he shouldn't be doing, and should definitely be reported to his superiors. 
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« Reply #13 on: January 23, 2011, 08:22:PM »

Anyways, I am going to his superior about this. I know our head priest would have NO patience for this kind of thing. This particular priest is always being very rude, calling ppl out and yelling at them during mass if their kids are making a noise and stuff. He also works at the school. He's been known to call the kids names, even hit them at times. He picks on my entire family, my Sis in law had to pull her kids out because Of it. He has taken me aside and told me that my wearing pants when I drop my daughter off is destructive to the kids in the school. He always makes comments about " those useless loser watsons" . He has even te my 2 little sisters that they are gonna end up as useless as their der brothers and sisters... I'm DONE. I have had enough, this was the last straw...

Sounds like the best course of action.  The priest sounds like a complete prick.

Indeed. This Priest is way out of line in the things you mention. If he thinks that his behavior is the proper comportment for a traditional Priest then he is sadly mistaken. I would definitely take this up with his district superior.
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« Reply #14 on: January 23, 2011, 08:44:PM »

No point dk, he's been around for 10 years, and really doesn't take complaints or criticism well. He would more then likey just yell at me and tell me to leave. I have had a few issues with him in the last 10 yrs, it's never gone well.

I just always wonder, What if that was someones first mass at our church? If that was my first experience in a church, I would nEver go back there!
My husband has decided to start going to the FSSP church now... He's had enough. He thinks I'm crazy if I go back



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« Reply #15 on: January 23, 2011, 08:49:PM »

Harsh.
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« Reply #16 on: January 23, 2011, 08:53:PM »

My husband has decided to start going to the FSSP church now... He's had enough. He thinks I'm crazy if I go back

Sounds like it's worth a try to me.  If what you say is accurate, this priest seems way out of line.  You wouldn't want this to be the impression of priests that sticks with your kids as they grow up.
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« Reply #17 on: January 23, 2011, 08:54:PM »

 Aww, there now
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« Reply #18 on: January 23, 2011, 08:55:PM »

Aww, there now

I forgot about that smiley!

It's my favorite... lol.  Sooooooo cuute.
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« Reply #19 on: January 23, 2011, 09:09:PM »


My husband has decided to start going to the FSSP church now... He's had enough. He thinks I'm crazy if I go back

I hope everything turns out well. That's not a horrible trade off: it's like stepping down from a Mercedes Benz to a BMW.
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