Why are white men so unattractive to the opposite sex?

[mistman]

I teach at the moment and I observe certain phenomenon and I have come to a conclusion in a world without race or ethnic boundaries, white men are out of luck. This private academy I recently sub-taught at is about 50% "minority," (soon to be the "majority") mostly black and about 50% white. The teachers have no control in the classroom and the noise level, arroagnce, and contempt for authority is defeaning. There is another thing I noticed: when asked to sit wherever the chose, white females tend to prefer black and hispanic males over white males. Black females clearly prefer black males and resent the white girls for "stealing" their men.

I once asked a woman about this and she told me: "yes, it is in a woman's psychology for a man to be dark." I felt inside after she told me that. Later, I asked a white homeless man about this and he said: "yeah, they (black men) get a lot more than we do." Presumably he meant sex.

So, given that white males have been instilled with a guilt complex for all of the wrongs they've allegedly done to other people (who are these people who teach them this, I wonder) and the fact that nearly all majority European countries are being invaded by cheap labor from "darker" lands, are we white males doomed?

The impression I get is that all races are proud and stand behind their men except white females, who appreciate nothing.

P.S. Sorry for my brutal honesty, but being intelligent does have a certain "turn off" effect for most American women. The fact that I am pale and have lighter hair makes me almost dispicable to most American women.   

[mistman]

If you are curious,

1. Go into a book store and look at the covers of those romance novels: almost none of the guys have blonde hair.
2. Look at advertising. Invariably, when a man is chosen, he is dark, when it is a woman, she is light.
3. The American phrase "tall, dark and handsome" comes to mind.

I just want to know why being a white male is so bad, especially if you are lighter skinned. I used to be proud of being European but knowing my women prefer other races and that women from other races consider me unattractive because I'm light and have done "bad things to people in the past" sort of puts a damper on things. It's hard for me to enjoy life or my culture anymore. I think they'll be no Europeans left in 25 years or so and that makes me very sad. They were the whole Catholic religion for 1500 years. No other group of people kept the faith except Europeans. 

[The_Harlequin_King]

I think you're moping unnecessarily. You do realize that Asian chicks love white men, right? Generally speaking, of course.

Black females clearly prefer black males and resent the white girls for "stealing" their men.

Doubtful. I've attracted many black women in my time. However, I'm generally not attracted to black women, and most white men feel the same way, so black women don't date outside their race often.


Also....  haven't you seen the cover guy for Skyrim? The whole game is about white, blond, Nordic badasses. Vikings are going to be the next big thing this decade, just as zombies, aliens, and cowboys have been in previous decades.

I took a picture next to a Skyrim ad in the London Tube as proof.



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Same for the Lord of the Rings movies. I mean, really. I don't think there's a woman on earth who doesn't dig the riders of Rohan. And if such women exist.... then they're irrelevant.

[The_Harlequin_King]

Therefore, I suggest you cultivate a Viking/Saxon warrior appearance.

[Hawaii Five-0]

Therefore, I suggest you cultivate a Viking/Saxon warrior appearance.

Or move to the Philippines. 

[The_Harlequin_King]

Therefore, I suggest you cultivate a Viking/Saxon warrior appearance.

Or move to the Philippines. 

Or both!

Seriously, one of my white friends went to Hong Kong (with his Chinese girlfriend, of course) and was treated like a celebrity there just because he was American, taller than everyone else, and considered handsome. Like I said, Asian women love white men. The same can't really be said for Asian men/white women, though. Interesting paradox there. If a white woman likes Asian men, it's probably because she already likes lankier men with more refined features anyway.

[FHM310]

If it makes you feel any better, I'm a white female and I am attracted to white men.  I have always liked "tall dark & handsome", but for me, the "dark" is the hair color, not the skin color.  And frankly, if most of my fellow white women are more attracted to non-white males than white, I am not aware of it.  It may be some new artificial trend, with all the propaganda out there. 

[The_Harlequin_King]

If it makes you feel any better, I'm a white female and I am attracted to white men.  I have always liked "tall dark & handsome", but for me, the "dark" is the hair color, not the skin color. 

I always thought the "dark" of "tall, dark and handsome" referred to tanned skin, weathered by years of intense labor and battle. Doesn't necessarily exclude white men.

[FHM310]

If it makes you feel any better, I'm a white female and I am attracted to white men.  I have always liked "tall dark & handsome", but for me, the "dark" is the hair color, not the skin color. 

I always thought the "dark" of "tall, dark and handsome" referred to tanned skin, weathered by years of intense labor and battle. Doesn't necessarily exclude white men.

Yes, it could be that too.

[Jacob]

If it makes you feel any better, I'm a white female and I am attracted to white men.  I have always liked "tall dark & handsome", but for me, the "dark" is the hair color, not the skin color. 

I always thought the "dark" of "tall, dark and handsome" referred to tanned skin, weathered by years of intense labor and battle. Doesn't necessarily exclude white men.

Exactly.  Tolkien described Aragorn in LotR as dark and lean, but that had nothing to do with his natural skin color.