Criticisms of JayneK

[JayneK]

People are continuing to derail the "farewell to Vetus" thread by talking about what is wrong with me.  I know that I started the derailing but I have recognized that I was wrong.  There is no reason to continue it.  Please post your criticisms of me here.

[NOtard]

You spend way too much of your time here on Fish Eaters.

Love,
your husband

[Grace]

I  hardly ever post here anymore and had never really established a known presence when I did.  I have however lurked off and on for a few years and know about some of the more active members.  I personally would advise that you stop asking people to tell you your faults.  I think I understand where it comes from, and while I don't doubt that you are well meaning and well intentioned ... it comes across as a kind of a masochistic enterprise, and I think it may often cause the opposite of what  you have intended. 

[tmw89]

Please post your criticisms of me here.

At your request, here are opinions with which I concur:

[JayneK] likes to stir the pot, sling the mud, antagonize, provoke, and slander. Then, when she gets the reaction she has been trying to get all along; ie., people calling her “crypo-Jew”, or whatever, then she takes the high road, becomes all apologetic, innocent and plays the victim. 

You spend way too much of your time here on Fish Eaters.

[drummerboy]

Please post your criticisms of me here.

At your request, here are opinions with which I concur:

[JayneK] likes to stir the pot, sling the mud, antagonize, provoke, and slander. Then, when she gets the reaction she has been trying to get all along; ie., people calling her “crypo-Jew”, or whatever, then she takes the high road, becomes all apologetic, innocent and plays the victim. 

[/b]

You spend way too much of your time here on Fish Eaters.

From what I've noticed Jayne this is true(about stirring the pot; my bolding won't work.  Sometimes you just got to let go, for our peace and your peace.

[Graham]

Comment deleted, because I felt like a jackass for writing it.

[GraceSeeker]

Well, for what it's worth... maybe I've missed some posts... but I've always liked you a great deal!

[Tapatio]

Per your request:
I have found many of your posts to be very critical of previous posts.
You come across as someone who wants to have the last say about the subject.
You are a "It's my way or the high way" kind of person.
You are very obdurate poster. And you lash out your venom whenever you deem fit. Once the feces hits the fan, then you "apologize" then you are "holy" again.
You see things where there are not. Sometimes I think you just like to "play" on the forum. Yes, to see how far you can go before seeking re-course from the Forum owner. And it is a point that you want known to everyone.
Example: In Vox's birthday thread, you posted words to the effect: "Hello Vox, I called you and left you a voicemail, but I wanted to say happy birthday".
Now, why would someone post that? Because you want to stand out.
That is the bottom line. You want attention. You want your 5 minutes of fame HOURLY.
Well you do stand out, like a sore thumb.  It was also mirrored in your fishie count.
I know it is not a miss congeniality contest, but you relished it.

You make a point of pushing posters that you personally dislike to their limits, (because you have a talent for finding their weaknesses) and then get them banned for "insults".
I have been here three months and since the incident that happened to Vetus, I started to read your posts. Yes, you like to poke your needle into conversations that are above your pay-grade and then wait for it bleed, then wait for the hemorrhage, then necrosis and you are a saint again.
 
In fact, you know very well how much havoc you created that you went ahead started this thread. And still you reference Vetus in the beginning.
You revel in this don't you?

And then The Gott mit uns Alex, you tried to frame that man end put him in a bad light.
It did not work. He called you out on it and rebuked and retorted your every accusation.
Again, you go and take the saintly road.

May I suggest that you reconsider your posts before hitting the "post button" and not after.

If in fact you are married, as you say you are, and you say you have grandchildren, spend time with your family.
May God bless you Jayne K

Please pray the prayer of San Francisco de Asis.



P.S       I agree with all the previous posters comments.

 

[Su]

I think she posted this as an alternative place to post criticism instead of on another thread. I do not think it was an invitation to criticise otherwise.

For those who think she revels in this or wants the attention, keep in mind that people were attacking her from a while ago. When one expects such things, one either becomes frustrated or just accepts it.

No matter how a person is, Christian Charity should be demonstrated by Christians.

And if one is in error, then one should be corrected in charity according to Fraternal Correction.

It is easy to criticize others, but it is more important to criticize oneself (privately).

Many times on the forum, people interact based on prior interaction. If one sees another interacting a little oddly with others, keep in mind there may be a history that one does not know. Being here for a few months is not long enough to know most such histories.

No matter the imperfections of her, I think it is shameful how some people here treat a Catholic grandmother who has much to share with the rest of us. Why is social perfection demanded? If I were married and someone treated my wife like some people here treat others so casually, there'd be hell to pay. If someone treated my mother like some treat people of similar social statuses here, all the courtesy in the the world couldn't hold me back.

Pretend this is an after Mass church basement social gathering.

[colombiano]

I have no idea. I never read your posts.