Spot on SU.
Souns like an American/Japanese dish. "Spotonsu".
I personally don't care about social imperfections. I am not PC myself.
But I do take issue issue, when a person slanders others for any reason.
Libel, in this case. Defamation in general. Calumny theologically.
Moreover, as you mentioned it, she is a grandmother. It would be fortifying and edifying for her to spend more time with her biological family than falsely accusing others on a forum. Especially a Traditionalista Catholic forum.
She's a traditional Catholic.
I think it is necessary and beneficial to have a full range of age and experience. I think she is a convert (almost sure, but my memory for personal details is weak), which adds another bonus.
Considering others have falsely accused her of many things, it is amazing she continues to contribute here.
Now, I am not defending her arbitrarily. I could criticise her such as that I think some of what she writes predictably gets certain unfavourable responses, but that does not mean those responses are just. It is a testament to the care we all need to take.
Charity should not be a psychological and sociological phenomenon. If one forsakes charity on online communication whenever the opportunity presents itself, then it means that one's charity otherwise is nothing but psychological. Like Jesus said, even pagans are caring in their own lives. It is when this love is extended to all others is it charity.