I agree. If all (American) women got together and decided they were going to stop wearing makeup, high heels, and/or bikinis, there wouldn't be a thing we men could do to stop them. Those industries would simply go the way of the corset or the hoop skirt and cease to exist.
But the thing is of course, women won't let other women do that so easily.
Women are quite cruel.
As for Indonesians...... speaking as someone of Indonesian descent, I can say that most Indonesian women don't wear veils. If they do, they're as much a fashion statement as they are religious..... much like in late medieval and Renaissance Europe. It's considered frumpy or low-class to wear a plain, Arab-style veil there.
There are a few areas in Indonesia where they are more conservative, but most Indonesians are quite...Indonesian in their culture.
That is the thing with Islam. It is as fractured as Protestants to the extent many Muslims will deny others are Muslims (I love this with the Salafiya)! Yet they think they are true because their book is in the same language all over the place...